When Life Has A Plan: Intuition, Synchronicity, & Love
In Honor of Our 50th Anniversary May 18, 1968 - 2018 By the time I…
Mothering Our Abandoned Longing
“Do you ask her how she is?” my therapist asked. “Not unless she acts out,”…
An Owl, a Dream, and a Mystery
A few nights after arriving in Arizona to visit Dotty and her family, I had…
Remembering Where We Belong
"Only from such a place of loss and longing can we begin remembering ourselves home." …
Message from My Wiser Self
Don’t worry when the logger leaves after one day. Be glad he cares about the…
A Mother’s Lament: “I Loved Him with All My Heart”
My mother-in-law Virginia was present during every conversation the last few weeks. She was alert…
I’m Moving Your Mother to a Nursing Home: Active Imagination during Hard Times
Dear Vic, I can’t take care of your mother anymore. I can’t keep giving her…
Love Notes: The Magic That Made Our Marriage Work
During an exhausting week of moving my husband Vic’s 102-year-old mother to a nursing home,…
The Estrogen Empire Strikes Back: Seneca Falls Women’s March, 1/20/18
We drove along the west side of Cayuga Lake toward Seneca Falls, NY, the site…
The Wisdom of Regret: A Lesson in Showing Up
I remember the tense discomfort of my flimsy excuse, but don’t recall just what it…