Lauren photographing the Susquehanna River
Creativity Family and Friends

Savoring the Solitude: A Writer’s Life

The day after Liz and David’s wedding, we cleaned-up, congratulated ourselves about how well everything…

David Mansfield 1973
Bereavement and End of Life Family and Friends Psychology and Mythology

Talking Back: Essential Marriage Skills 101

Three-year-old David snuggled on our friend Jeanne Astor’s lap in an Ithaca clothing store. “What’s…

Bereavement and End of Life Psychology and Mythology

Roadblocks and New Beginnings

I jump in my car, pull out of my driveway, and speed uphill—the direct route…

Liz and David
Family and Friends Spirituality

Sunshine on the Wedding: June 2013

We wake up to blue skies, our weather prayers answered. Friends arrive to do the…

David, Anthony, Liz, and Elaine before the rain
Bereavement and End of Life Family and Friends

The Day before the Wedding: Chop, jive, and remember the missing

The morning before David and Liz’s wedding, Tropical Storm Andrea dumps six inches of rain…

Elaine and Vic, 2007
Bereavement and End of Life Creativity Family and Friends

Gifts of the Heart: Volunteering at Hospice

The lights darken on viewing night for senior project documentaries created by Ithaca College Journalism…

My mother Iva Ware, 1970
Family and Friends

My Mother’s Rules: Good Grades and No Babies

Don’t get pregnant and get good grades. When I was in high school, these rules…

Jill Swenson of Swenson Book Development
Creativity Writing and Social Media

Social Media for Authors: Jill Swenson interviews Elaine Mansfield

Jill Swenson of Swenson Book Development interviewed me about my use of social media to…

Bereavement and End of Life Family and Friends

The Cancer Survivor: Hope Lodge Hospitality House 2007

“Congratulations,” Mark said as I packed up my food in the American Cancer Society Hope…

Mother of the Groom silk
Family and Friends

Dressing Up the Mother of the Groom

This body likes hiking boots and jeans. It digs deep wide holes for plants and…