Grieving crone, India, 1994, photo by Vic Mansfield
Political Action Psychology and Mythology

Have They Forgotten They Are Mortal? Lessons from Hecate

The Greek Goddess Hecate has a witchy reputation—wild broomstick rides in the night, warts on…

Family and Friends Spirituality

Baby David’s Hippie Baptism: A Ritual to Bless New Life

Soon after our son David was born in 1970, my husband’s mom gave me a small…

Vic and Virginia ~2000
Bereavement and End of Life Family and Friends

When Kindness Demands a Lie

“Give my son a kiss from me,” my mother-in-law Virginia whispers. “OK, I will,” I say…

Self Portrait as Green Woman
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5 Ways to Listen for the Soul’s Call

It's 2 p.m. This morning’s meditation was a practice in fidgets and worry. Breakfast and…

Bereavement and End of Life Political Action Spirituality

Interdependence

I should have known sorrow would flood my heart. I should have known grief would grab…

This was in 2017. I hope we can find our way to that hope again.
Nature Political Action

Giving Hope a Seat Between Anxiety and Grief: Women’s March on Washington

Women, girls, kids, and men in pink hats and scarves jammed the Washington Metro subway.…

Helen, Virginia, and Rose (L-R), 2002
Family and Friends Psychology and Mythology

Goodbye to Her Little Sister: Helping a Grieving Elder

When the overnight aide arrived at 10 pm, Virginia wasn’t asleep in her bed. She…

a few favorite sandtray figures
Creativity Psychology and Mythology

Sandtray: Getting through Hard Times with Imagination and Play

A dear friend wrote me a letter after she read my last blog. Along with her…

Bereavement and End of Life Family and Friends

A Good Hurt: Choosing to Remember Those We Miss

...there comes a time when, long after loss has been well-lived..., a small melody of…

Family and Friends Spirituality

May There Be Peace on Earth

Someday soon we all will be together If the fates allow Until then, we'll muddle…